
I had a really good meeting with some of the trangender members of TBC yesterday. Today I was reflecting on the first meeting I had with Dee Dee . She was one of the trangender individuals I met with yesterday. I always appreciate talking with Dee Dee, she's a very caring and sensitive person who is always thinking about ministry for hurting people....
The meeting I had with her about three years ago was a real eye opener to the lives of trangender people. I had absolutely no idea what they went through just to be themselves. When she finished telling me of the tragedy and pain she had suffered in her life I was in tears. I could not imagine how someone could survive such injustice and rejection. But she did survive it and she did it because she turned her pain into an opportunity to rescue and save other transgender individuals from having to go through the same suffering that she had to endure. She asked me if Tabernacle would partner with LaGender Inc. (a nonprofit organization she started) and open our doors of love and acceptance to the trangender community, so they would have a place to worship God without being treated with discrimination, alienation, and prejudice. I was honored. It was humbling to know that our church was a place for someone who never had a pastor and never really been in a church, yet she found TBC a place of solace and comfort.
I would like to be honest and tell you that not everyone in our church welcomed the transgender ministry. It was surprising to me that even the same gendered individuals of the congregation were struggling with the new ministry. But after the dust settled and the transgender people assimilated throughout the congregation, everything was just fine. We are one big happy family worshiping and praising God together.

I am getting ready to go to a barbecue at my son Micah's house. I am so proud of him. He and His partner Michael have just purchased a new home and he has invited the family to come over. One of my beloved members, Deshon, who is a trangender will be joining us. I call Deshon my daughter. She is supposed to bring the kabobs and a banana pudding. I am a little concerned about the banana pudding cause no one can make banana pudding like my ex-wife. Speaking of the ex-wife, I have got to go now and pick her up from the airport. That's my BEST FRIEND.
Until Next Time,
Pastor Meredith
